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Sweat Bands & Caffeine

Hey guys!

I’ve gotten a few questions lately regarding sweat bands and caffeinated serums so I’m going to share how it works and why it works.

Sweat bands.

I did a fair amount of research before buying one. It seemed like another weight loss scam and I was really skeptical. Sweat bands range in materials but are synthetic, usually neoprene or something a little fancier. They are usually used around the waist but you can also get leg ones like I have!

The best way to explain how they work is to first explain the ‘whoosh effect’. With proper diet and exercise, your bodyโ€™s fat cells are emptied of triglyceride as your body breaks it down for energy. As the fat decreases, water is temporarily absorbed into the cell making it full again. Eventually your body flushes the water from the cell creating the fat cell to shrink. This is why weight loss can sometimes take time.

I never totally believed in this theory of weight loss but I do notice this effect in my own body. I find that using a sweat belt helps this process.

Many people say you are sweating water weight so you will just ‘gain’ it back, which isn’t wrong either. However if you think long term, I do find it effective!

Caffeine.

Topical caffeine use is nothing new. We use it in facial serums to reduce the look of dark circles and large veins.

It is also used in body scrubs etc. for cellulite. Caffeine helps dehydrate the fat cells in cellulite thus reducing the appearance or shrinking the area!

You can shop it here!

Put the two together and you have an amazing combo!

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Post Partum Fitness & Recovery

You asked and I’m sharing!

I get a lot of questions about my post partum body routine. Everyone’s body is different and handles post partum different but we can all feel good…that doesn’t have to be different โค

I love pregnancy and I love what our bodies are capable of. I think that it is most important to start with loving where you’re at FIRST. I’m not going to get into this because you can read my point on post partum positivity in a different post.

I want this post to be about my post partum process aka how I get my 6 pack back ASAP haha.

This collage shows the day I found out I was pregnant with my second, 1 week post partum and 5 weeks post partum.

1. Before pregnancy….

If you remember me before my second pregnancy, I started it STRONG. I was in the best shape of my life. This made a huge difference with both pregnancies. I had a strong foundation. This doesn’t just mean good aesthetics. It means I had a strong foundation for my health/fitness….my cardio was at it’s best, I had an athletic body composition, clean diet and solid fitness routine. Having a healthy routine makes it easier to keep consistent through pregnancy. It helps you make good choices throughout because you’ve already made a habit of it.

2. During pregnancy….

Exercise and eat balanced. Pregnancy fitness is for maintenance. You’re goal is to stay healthy and pump your body full of lots of oxygen and to keep you strong! Make sure you eat right. I firmly believe our cravings are the result of sugar addiction (lol) and nutritional deficiencies. If you’re craving fast food, you might be low on fats or salt. You don’t need to eat perfect, but like a regular diet eat balanced. One fast food night, sure. Every night because ‘that’s what baby wants’ is a no-no. Baby doesn’t want garbage.

So that’s the quickest run down of pre baby and pregnancy care, if you are pregnant or are wanting to get pregnant and would like more information feel free to reach out to me.

3. Post partum…

This is a whirlwind of excitement, snuggles and no sleep. It’s hard to prioritize working out. It’s hard to always eat a good meal. I get it. I make it a priority to care for myself and if you’re not…you need to also ๐Ÿ˜š These are a few tips from my experience which have helped me stay healthy after pregnancies.

  • Meal prep so you’re eating well. Prep snacks, have protein powder handy…it’s a game changer. Especially if you’re breastfeeding, it is crucial to keep your calories up. For snacks I prep raw veges, protein shakes/smoothies, yogurt bowls (frozen fruit and granola), selective fruits, trail mix, granola bars.
  • Drink so much water
  • Set goals. Are you focused on gaining/losing weight? Rebuilding your core or pelvic floor? Improving overall wellness? Whatever it is, set specific goals and remain committed to your why.
  • Exercise. Commit to 3x/week. 30 minutes each session and you’ll notice a difference.
  • Stay as active as you can. This can be hard but I keep up with all my house and yard work. I also make an effort to get at least 10k steps in each day.
  • Tightening serum. I use an oil serum on my stomach and hips to help reduce water retention, and to help tighten my skin again (this is achieved through collagen or collagen like properties). You can see it in my shop
  • Focus on yourself. Focus on your mind. Focus on something you like and something you enjoy. I focus on growing my glutes and legs instead of dropping weight in my tummy. I also focus on improving my cardio again. ๐Ÿ™‚
  • Diet. Pick something around 80/20 for balance and clean eating.
  • Tan. I get a tan. It makes me feel better. Whether it’s a spray, at home or in a bed…I always love a little glow and it makes me feel good!
  • Get naked and put work into loving it. I know you probably just laughed and told me to f*ck off but seriously. Do some skin to skin with your baby. Wear your underwear or bra and just get used to being in your skin. Trust me…eventually it works <3 Your kids love you and your body, your partner does so why wouldn’t you?
  • Sweat band…I’ve been using this around tummy very regularly. It’s found my waist again and definitely helped move the fluids out of my tummy faster. I would recommend one of these. Sweet Sweat makes a great one, available on Amazon!

That’s it! There isn’t much to my process but it has worked for 2 pregnancies and worked well post partum for both of my kids. It is important to remember to care for yourself along with your family. Make it a priority to care for yourself. I really can’t say that enough. Care for yourself before pregnancy, during and after. You deserve to feel good. It matters what you put into your body and it matters if you use it or not so choose to make good choices. I don’t follow any diets, I don’t restrict my eating beyond choosing healthy with a little bit of yes. I try to follow as close to the 80/20 rule, 80% good, whole and healthy and 20% pizza, cake and donuts.

I always feel funny sharing personal progress, especially post partum. This can be a tricky time. One thing to remember is not to compare yourself to others. We all have different goals, bodies and different experiences. It’s important to love where you are at and to make sure you are working towards your goals, not someone else’s. ๐Ÿ˜Š

My favourite post partum goal is strength. You’ve just carried and birthed a beautiful baby. You are a strong woman. I like to lean into this and continue feeling strong and powerful. ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ For me, this means focusing on building muscle and weight lifting. Provided you are doing this effectively, your body will be burning calories while gaining muscle.

Now, I get that not everyone is reading this 4 weeks after having a baby. Is your youngest 3, 4 or 5 years old now? You’re not alone. I know too many women that don’t give themselves the time to care for their bodies post partum. That’s ok, start now. Commit to yourself now.

What are you working on post partum?

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Post Partum Positivity

Carrying babies is seriously amazing right? It comes with a whirlwind of highs, lows and changes. Some changes are controllable and some, not so much. This means as women and as moms, we need to be able to acknowledge the changes in our lives and bodies and find the best way to be happy about it.

It means not comparing yourself to Sally. Sally has different priorities. A different body. Different kids. A different home. It means learning to love where YOU are at. It means loving the process and appreciating what your body has created.

For most of us, finding post partum happiness, means deciding what bring you the most joy and prioritizing that. What makes you feel like your best self and sacrificing A because B brings us more joy. You might be a superhero and have it figured out with no sacrifice and that is AMAZING. I am SO proud of you. With one baby, I felt like I had everything 100% how I needed it without sacrifice. With 2 kids, I had some bad days and decided I needed to let shit go. I needed to make some sacrifices. So I did and I’m happy. Not every day goes well…honestly most are still a sleepless shit show while we all adjust to the change. But I choose happy. I choose what serves us best in that moment, for that day.

For me….that’s letting go of a spotless house for me time and workouts. I don’t nap when my kids nap. I workout. I shower. I sit in silence with a glass of wine and yes, sometimes…I clean. It also meant letting go of being the ‘perfect’ mom. I’ve now been caught with a screaming toddler dangling from my hand and a newborn in my arms….in public. I’ve now said fuck it and left events after meltdowns because seriously….fuck it, it’s not serving anyone in that moment ๐Ÿ˜‚ We’ve stayed in PJs all day because it just wasn’t happening. I’ve cried on the floor in the middle of the day because everything went to shit that morning and it wasn’t even 1030am. It allowed me to laugh at my self that evening. I’ve opened a bottle of wine before noon. I’ve used YouTube to entertain my little monster because I couldn’t do another 5 minutes in the car being yelled at. At the end of the day….I ‘caved’ and did so many things I never planned because in that moment…it helped my day and prevented me from feeling depressed, angry, frustrated etc. In that moment I chose to go for happy, not even for myself but for all of us. It helps me be patient with my kids. It helps me laugh off the bullshit.

So…how do you choose happy?

Prioritize what’s important to you. Stick with those points. Let go of the rest.

For me… (really in no specific order but my personal priorities first, mom second)

  • Fitness/feeling strong and good in my skin/self care
  • Alone time
  • Caring for/loving on my hubby
  • Getting outside
  • Being organized

Mom priorities:

  • My kids are hugged/kissed/feeling loved the shit out of
  • Healthy meals
  • Routine
  • Socializing/activities/exercise
  • Fun fun fun and development

Wife priorities:

  • My husband feels loved and cared for
  • When he’s home/working his lunches are made, his dinner is hot when he gets home
  • His needs are met ๐Ÿ˜‰
  • We have fun together

I seriously think those are all my priorities. Nothing outside of that matters on a bad/hard day. Having this list allows me to focus on what I CAN do…even when I’m having a hard, shit day…this list is always attainable and is always met.

On good days, which happen pretty often, everything gets done. The house is clean, laundry is done, yard is cared for etc.. Having a plan for shit days makes all the difference to me. It helps make my shit days good, even though it felt like everything went wrong, I still cared for everyone, including myself and that is something to be proud of and happy for. Don’t neglect yourself. You deserve to feel good. Your family will feel it when your cup is empty. Fill that cup right up every day.

I get rid of things that don’t motivate me, encourage me or elevate me. It’s not worth it. It leaves you prone to wasting time and feeling bad because it didn’t happen today, or yesterday.

This also means you need to hold yourself accountable to your priorities. Hold yourself to what is important to you and make sure it happens when it is supposed to. You CAN do it and you’ll feel like shit if you don’t so set yourself up for success and JUST DOOO IT. Don’t blame your hormones or being ‘too busy’ because you can choose happy and you are in control of your to do list and priorities. You can override your hormones (I do it often right now) and you are in control of your body and mind. ๐ŸŒนโค

Life is a marathon and you cannot win a marathon without putting some bandaids on your nipples. Bandaid up you beautiful babes ๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿผโค๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘งโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ